We all are somewhat not satisfied with our life. Sometimes you find yourself doing things that you really don’t want to…. because our parents told us to be a doctor, engineer, etc. And we start leading ourselves that way regardless of whether we want to do it or not, this will suddenly affect your behaviour. You will often get angry. You will get frustrated. If you are not interested in some field you will never get success in. However, if you recognize the way to look, you’ll be able to gain a bigger understanding of yourself: why you create the selections that you just do, what causes you to happy, and the way you may modification for the higher. Think about your interest … think what you want to be..? What do you want to achieve? What are your dreams that you want to be fulfilled? And for this, you need to understand yourself.
1 SPEND SOME TIME IN SOLITUDE
The first thing you can do to gain a greater understanding of yourself is to spend some time in solitude. Solitude increases productivity and sparks creativity in you. Being alone can help you build mental strength and may reduce behaviour problems in you. It also gives you an opportunity to plan your life and helps you to know yourself.
2 ASK QUESTIONS TO YOUR SELF
Ask a few questions to yourself. Don’t be biased, think like a neutral person, don’t give priority to excuses, relax, and take a deep breath, close your eyes now think. And ask few questions to yourself
- Describe yourself in a few lines?
- What you want to be?
- What goals you have set?
- What steps did u take to achieve your goal?
- What are your priorities?
3 PURPOSE OF YOUR LIFE
We are all born with a deep and interesting purpose that we’ve got to get. Your purpose isn’t one thing you would like to create up; it’s already there. You’ve got to uncover it so as to form the life you wish. You’ll raise a question to yourself, “What is my purpose in life?” Then you’ll begin to get your passion or your purpose by exploring 2 issue
- What do you love to do?
- What comes easily to you?
4 RECOGNIZE YOUR SKILLS
Analyze yourself. What excites you the most? What are your interests? In what things are you good at?
- Identify the name of a skill
- Think and how you use this skill
- Ask WH questions to yourself why who, what and how?
- Why you prevail at certain things and battle with others?
- Identify your strength
- Your passion to do a specific job,
- Think about your work experience, academic project work, extracurricular and community activities
- Write your accomplishments you really enjoyed doing
LISTEN TO YOU’RE HEART’S VOICE
After noting down answers of all the above question, listen to the voice of your heart. What directions your heart is giving to you… Be creative, you can do things that can be done by everyone but that doesn’t demonstrate your true abilities, listen to your inner voice make a decision and start pursuing your inner voice.
There is a famous saying “LUCKY Are THOSE WHOSE PROFESSION IS THEIR HOBBY”
5 SET YOUR GOALS
Now you have realized your skills and your passion, set your goal that is related to your personality. Now take the necessary steps to achieve your goal. Firstly break your goal into milestones. Make a plan, make a list of things you want to do to achieve your first milestone. Decide daily task and do all the necessary steps to complete it. Don’t be in a rush, stay calm and focused. In the very beginning you will face some hardships, rejections, disappointment, but, don’t get frustrated and never lose hope. Keep working, and one day you will achieve your goals.
There is a famous saying by VINCE LOMBARDI
“THE GREATEST ACCOMPLISHMENT IS NOT IN NEVER FALLING BUT IN RISING AGAIN, AFTER YOU FALL”
6 IMPROVE YOUR PERSONALITY.
Personality is the distinctive combination of patterns that influence behaviour, thought, motivation, and feeling in an individual. Personality is basically the combination of characteristics or qualities that form an individual’s distinctive character. In other words, it makes you unique from others
Here I am giving you a few questions that you should ask yourself to improve your personality
Ask 5 questions to yourself
Does your behaviour about your studies is happy or rude? Are u willing to learn or not? This shows whether you are taking an interest in your studies or not. Try a different educational test to find your interest. This will help you in improving yourself because learning about new ideas gives you a better understanding of yourself.
Are u more willing to help others or not. This shows your inner peace if you are not willing to help others that mean you are still not satisfied with yourself. Take a deep breath. Accept yourself with all the flaws because nobody is perfect in this world, we all e humans, not a robot….try to help others this will give you happiness and inner peace to yourself
Check your behaviour
How you behave with your guest, seniors, servant, teacher, your colleagues. How do you respond to them? Greet everybody with a smile. The primary and simplest step you’ll go for improving your temperament is to offer everybody warm greetings, Have courtesy, Ask open-ended queries, Keep your promises, Offer aid to those in need, continue doing this stuff although they do not return naturally. This will help you to improve your behaviour as well as your impression on others.
Realize how you respond in difficult situations
At the point when things get extremely intense and you find yourself in extremely difficult situation, for example, when you lose your employment, a friend or family member passes on, heavy loss in business or somebody is cheating you, in this type of situation, you will find out the more covered up or controlled pieces of your character Think about how you’ve responded in the past when the pressure has gotten high. For what reason did you respond to the manner in which that you did? How would you wish that you’d respond? Would you be more likely to react that way now read more and explore new things the more you read and develop new interests, the additionally fascinating you are to other people? When you meet new individuals, it offers you the chance to share what you know and to trade your perspectives with them.
Be open to negative comments
Listen to what others say to and about you. Be open to hearing negative remarks about you. Sometimes, particularly when we do wrong things, others will attempt to caution us against those practices. Acknowledge yourself how you react to those remarks?
Keep in mind: there’s no reason for deceiving yourself, even if you discover truths about yourself that you really don’t like. This solitary offer you the chance to take those issues head-on rather than simply imagining as they don’t exist. Attempt to acknowledge them. Try to be a better human and serve humanity.